Relationships are complex and full of challenges that can lead to dissatisfaction and disconnection between partners. This eventually lead to problems that can be avoided if/when the right things are done. When these issues aren’t addressed, they can escalate into bigger conflicts, creating a cycle of misunderstanding and hurt. You may feel isolated, unheard, or unappreciated, and without...
I want to talk about something that, honestly, took me a while to grasp but has tremendously transformed my relationships, with women and especially with my wife: the art of listening – how to listen to women. It’s more than just hearing words; it’s about truly understanding and connecting with your partner. You Hear Her, But Did You Listen? I’ll admit, like many guys, I used to think...
“There are no more good men, good men are hard to find.” This is a very common expression among women everywhere in the world and I have often wondered why. I understand why they say it and during conversations with women/girls sometimes, I have said it too and have also said the opposite, that “there are good men, you just don’t know where to and how to find them.” I believe the...
Honestly, I don’t know why he doesn’t love you anymore and I don’t think anyone could tell you exactly why. However, there are common reasons why a/your man says he doesn’t love you anymore, I will share the most common reasons I know of from my experience, plus reasons most men have shared with me and solutions that could help you. There are many reasons why men say they don’t love their...
A profound quote I love and would preface this piece with is a quote from Dr. Miles Monroe, he said “when the purpose of a thing is unknown, abuse is inevitable”. This is true with perhaps everything in life when we don’t have clarity, without a clear direction on any journey or goal we get frustrated and fail to achieve it. This is exactly the case with everyone who has said they were or...
Dear Friend, I hope this letter finds you well and in good spirits. I wanted to take a moment to talk about something that has been on my mind lately, something that I believe is essential for the health and happiness of any relationship – communication. Firstly, I want you to know that I care deeply about you and your happiness, and my intention in writing this letter is to offer solutions...
Dear Friend, I hope this letter finds you well, wrapped in the warmth of love. Relationships, like delicate flowers, require nurturing, understanding, and effective communication plays a vital role. I wrote some styles you might consider: Sometimes words feel heavy, and the air is thick with unspoken tension. Break this silence with the gentle rustle of vulnerability. Share your feelings openly...
It’s not uncommon to feel like you’re walking on eggshells when it comes to sharing your deepest feelings with your partner. This emotional tightrope can be incredibly taxing. You might often find yourself holding back for fear of being misunderstood or starting an argument. This silence, though intended to maintain peace, can lead to a build-up of unspoken words and unexpressed...
One of the problems women have with the men is a lack of commitment, most men habitually don’t commit for different reasons rooted in fear. When you talk to most men about this, the solutions are very similar. Talking, understanding, and a mutual effort to reach a compromise for both of you to succeed. Here are some keys to consider: Initiate Honest Conversations: Talk openly and honestly about...
Listening to understand, especially in the context of a romantic relationship, is a vital skill that can significantly improve the connection and depth of your love life. It’s about focusing on the essence of what your partner is saying, putting aside your own perspective momentarily to truly understand their feelings, thoughts, or concerns. Here are 10 proven tips to help achieve this:...